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Underpinning a lot of this is imbalanced sex ratios - decades ago single men were scarce, but today single women are scarce. Independent of OLD, this explains a lot of inceldom. https://evoandproud.blogspot.com/2009/08/who-saw-it-coming.html

There is much to be said for the first chart detailing how couples meet. Anecdotally it seems to be true for me. Most of my friends met their long-term partners (and some wives) online. And these are productive, well-adjusted, relatively outgoing and attractive guys (most are at least 6'1 tall too). The ones that didn't meet online are a clear minority.

So even if online dating is a sausage fest, enough women go on these apps for the male masses to keep trying. The biggest question for me is why so many women feel compelled to use OLD.

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